a message from my Relief Society President,
PROTECTING CHILDREN DURING TIMES OF DIFFICULTY
"During our recent Stake Leadership meeting, President John Frischknecht asked the auxiliary presidencies to make a special effort to help teach stake members the importance of preparing children for the future. President Frischknecht recalled sitting in front of the television with his grandchildren on September 11, 2001, watching events unfold as the Twin Towers fell and the attack on the Pentagon was broadcast. Not realizing that the children were being impacted by the graphic images and frightening commentary, the adults in the Frischknecht family watched or listened to reports almost nonstop, and even made the disaster the topic of conversation at the dinner table, Later that night, when it was time for the grandchildren to go to bed, they were so frightened, they each asked permission to sleep with their parents.
President Frischknecht shared this story as an example of the importance of being wise as we share information about difficulties in the world. He counseled us to be cautious to speak positively around the dinner table or in the presence of children. He reminded us of the importance of focusing on our blessing, rather than complaining about our problems. Our children deserve the assurance that there is secure footing beneath them. Stories of gloom and doom do not bless them, and because children are essentially powerless to do anything about "adult problems," making them aware of many of those problems simply creates unnecessary stress and worry for impressionable children. Parents need to be sensitive to their children's emotions and portray an attitude of optimism rather than gloom and doom. "We need to teach our children that the future will be as bright as their faith, said President Frischknecht. With that counsel in mind, we encourage parents to use wisdom and sensitivity as world events are discussed in our homes. A child who is secure in the knowledge that his parents will do all in their power to protect him, and that he can expect to be safe from harm, will thrive."